My Platform -- Healthy Today, Healthy Forever

I know, I know....it sounds so vague right?? Well, let me give you some background information on it....

I was married for 3 years to a man who turned out to be a great father, but just wasn't in a position at the time to be a great husband. The marriage was rough, and it was emotionally exhausting. The decision to walk away was one that I struggled with for some time. I didn't want to be considered a failure. It was hard for me to face myself where this was concerned...and it was a tough position for me when I left. For about 8 months I stayed single, and kind of fell into a slump, so to speak. I was very unmotivated, not wanting to go out or get involved. I did the same routine every day...got up, went to work, went home. I wasn't spending much quality time with Aidan, and I wasn't doing anything for myself.

One day Aidan looked at me, and asked if we could do something fun. He was probably 2 1/2, and that was it for me. Right then I realized that he didn't deserve to get the blunt of my misery, and I didn't really need to sit swallowed in this state of sadness. It literally was the flip of the switch for me. I had enough!! So out we went, Aidan and I. In the next few months, I joined a gym, got involved in church, volunteered more, and set some major life altering goals, specifically getting out of debt and buying a house, with enough motivating passion behind each one that they became a MUST for me!! Within one year, I had taken my new position and made it work for me. I paid off all the debts from my marriage, put myself in a great position to not only purchase a home but afford to do renovations and still have some savings. I have taken more vacations with my son, and try to get involved in new sports with him as often as I can.

Making those changes has made me a better person, a stronger woman, and a more attentive mom. Financial stability, having a home, and becoming physically active have created an emotional force that I can survive! Being healthy isn't just about eating right or working out...it's about enjoying life and taking everything it throws at you.

So this year, I'm focusing on other women who may be in similar situations. I want to be an example that changing your life starts with a decision that without fail is a MUST! I MUST change! I WILL NOT live like this anymore! Once you take that step, the rest is a given! :)

Until next time.... VIVA LAS VEGAS!!!

Busy, Busy...

So....since last time, I have been busy!! Besides the shopping (which I still hate!!) and a few interviews, I spent some time with Habitat for Humanity at the All Women Build site. Wow!!! what an experience! To work with so many women to build a house....A HOUSE!! I got to build part of the fire wall that went between the townhouse units. I have never used a circular saw before...those little things have some power behind them! And a nail gun...woo hoo!! Talk about a kick! lol Plus, I got a little sun that day, which is always a good thing! :) It was tiring, for sure, but well worth the time! And I just know that the families that will live there are going to appreciate it so much because they were a part of it too! And what's more, it will help those individuals become emotionally and financially stable, providing them with peace of mind which goes a long way with your mental health! It is so important...I learned that after my divorce...and I got to be a part of that for someone else!

Oh -- I just got done taping the Tim Qualls Show!! Channel 28 I believe....airs all next week starting Sunday! Tune in and check me out. Feel free to give me some pointers back, too. And what's next? I'm throwing out the first pitch at the Blue Rocks on June 10!! Come out and see me....I'll be there all evening!

Next month starts my solid workouts too....I think I'll try something new in June. The Y is trying this bootcamp once a week. Should be fun! I think I'll sign up!

Okay, off to work! Hey -- if you have bugs, give me a call! Look up Ehrlich in the phone book, tell them I sent you! :)

Until next time..... VIVA LAS VEGAS!!!!

Shopping, Shopping, and More Shopping....

I have unpacked another box in my house!! YAY!! For those who don't know, I purchased my house in August of last year, had tons of renovations to do, and moved in through the month of December. It's now May, and I'm still trying to unpack! I know...procrastination at it's best. Don't remind me....

So only 2 months until Las Vegas, and I must say that I never realized how much I actually dislike the art of shopping. I mean, I've always liked window shopping, and I do love to buy for others...it's always fun to find the perfect gift for someone special. But now that I have a purpose in shopping, and it is for me, I really am easily frustrated going from store to store trying to find the perfect mix my personality with pageant worthiness. A daunty task indeed!

And women always say that bathing suit shopping is aweful! Evening gowns have been a nightmare, and trying to find a modern professional look for an interview, but not a suit?? Yeah -- good luck with that!! Suggestions are welcome!! :)

Anyway... off to dream land this evening! Until next time....

VIVA LAS VEGAS!!!